EleÂgant, IntiÂmate RelatÂing is an art. It requires attenÂtion, focus and perÂsisÂtence. My new book, The. Best. RelaÂtionÂship. Ever., is packed with guidÂance, exerÂcisÂes, and direcÂtions for drasÂtiÂcalÂly improvÂing your relaÂtionÂship.
As you read, you will discover:
- 8 reaÂsons youâve failed at relatÂing â we examÂine what goes wrong
- 3 probÂlems peoÂple have with comÂmuÂniÂcaÂtion â once you know what doesnât work, youâre ready for what does!
- Sam and SalÂly, and learn how to realÂly mess up a relaÂtionÂship! â you see their mis-steps, and learn from them.
- how âlabellingâ your partÂner gets in the way of EleÂgant, IntiÂmate RelatÂing. Youâll see that EleÂgant, IntiÂmate RelatÂing means no judgÂing and blamÂing.
- brand new modÂel for being in relaÂtionÂship, called EleÂgant, IntiÂmate RelatÂing.
- the rules and pracÂtice of diaÂlogue. Each conÂverÂsaÂtion is worÂthy of doing well!
- what to do, and when. Youâll have the tools you need, right in front of you.
Wayne Allen cares about peoÂple. ReadÂing this book is like havÂing a priÂvate sesÂsion with Wayne himÂself. The readÂer encounÂters his humour, nonÂjudgÂmenÂtalÂness and useÂful direcÂtions for estabÂlishÂing and mainÂtainÂing fulÂfillÂing relaÂtionÂships. The book is pracÂtiÂcal, straightÂforÂward and clear, not weighed down with jarÂgon or acadÂeÂmia. An excelÂlent introÂducÂtion to a life of perÂsonÂal develÂopÂment and meanÂing. We recÂomÂmend Wayne, and this, his latÂest book.
â BenÂnet Wong, MD, FRCPÂ©, DLitt
â Jock McKÂeen, MD, LicAc(UK), DLitt
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CouÂples, whether in already strong relaÂtionÂships or those who are expeÂriÂencÂing some ârough patchÂes,â will appreÂciÂate Wayne Allenâs latÂest book. ConÂsisÂtent with his othÂer books and writÂings, in The.Best.Relationship.Ever. Wayne draws upon eleÂgance, self-responÂsiÂbilÂiÂty and unabashed honÂesty as the corÂnerÂstones for powÂerÂful and intiÂmate relaÂtionÂships. WritÂten with stoÂries, case examÂples and sugÂgesÂtions, Wayne lets the readÂer in on his own real-life experÂiÂmenÂtaÂtion of these conÂcepts with his wife and partÂner, DarÂlene. Wayneâs guidÂance does not perÂmit disÂtracÂtions, excusÂes or blame and instead, coaxÂes the all-encomÂpassÂing and honÂest awareÂness of the readÂer to strengthÂen their presÂence in their relaÂtionÂship. Wayne has added potent, yet easy exerÂcisÂes that traÂverse the realms of comÂmuÂniÂcaÂtion, probÂlem-resÂoÂluÂtion, integriÂty, respect and sexÂuÂalÂiÂty that truÂly engage the readÂer to apply the conÂcepts to their curÂrent relaÂtionÂship.
Debashis DutÂta, proÂfesÂsor,
Human SerÂvices FounÂdaÂtion ProÂgram,
ConÂestoÂga ColÂlege, KitchÂenÂer, Ontario, CanaÂda
Wise. Warm. WonÂdrous. WitÂty. Thatâs Wayne and his WritÂing.
The. Best. RelaÂtionÂship. Ever. is a gem of a book on relatÂing honÂestÂly, deeply, and eleÂgantÂly. Based on years of hanÂdling and expeÂriÂencÂing relaÂtionÂships, the book is writÂten in tradeÂmark Wayne style : simÂple, perÂsonÂal, funÂny and proÂfound. You can see yourÂself nodÂding in agreeÂment, menÂtalÂly rolling your eyes at the things that you do being now reflectÂed in the book, and smilÂing because hey, the book underÂstands you realÂly well.
Thatâs what makes this book so speÂcial. That it talks to you. It seems to know you deep withÂin your mind where all relaÂtionÂships begin. You are walkÂing togethÂer to make the best relaÂtionÂship ever posÂsiÂble. For you.
Wayne outÂright tells you how it is : âThough the numÂber of peoÂple in a traÂdiÂtionÂal relaÂtionÂship is two, there is only one perÂson that can change how you relate to your partÂner. You!â
So this book is neiÂther a tool to change your partÂner, nor findÂing new ways to blame them, nor about disÂcovÂerÂing fresh excusÂes for your relaÂtionÂship being the way it is.
As Wayne puts it: âwe are going for a walk into 100% responÂsiÂbilÂiÂty.â
You learn â and more imporÂtantÂly, realise, that real, beauÂtiÂful, honÂest and fulÂfillÂing relaÂtionÂships start with relatÂing more deeply and intiÂmateÂly with yourÂself. That work on any relaÂtionÂship has to begin with work on yourÂself. That in order to have the best relaÂtionÂship ever you need to approach it with integriÂty, matuÂriÂty, eleÂgance and total responÂsiÂbilÂiÂty. The book offers you sevÂerÂal workÂable tools and techÂniques that enable you to actuÂalÂly expeÂriÂence betÂter relaÂtionÂships â and does so in a manÂner that prods your comÂmon sense and tickÂles your funÂny bone in good meaÂsure.
Thank you Wayne C Allen for this remarkÂably intuÂitive and refreshÂing read. All relaÂtionÂships deserve this book.
~ SharmiÂla BhosÂale
** PaperÂback: 220 pages
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* PubÂlishÂer: The Phoenix CenÂtre Press
(FebÂruÂary 14, 2013)
* LanÂguage: EngÂlish
ISBN: Book â 978â09877192â3â2
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